Keeping it Real:
Stories and Insights on Adult ADHD Understanding

For many adults, realising they might have ADHD doesn’t come out of nowhere. It often follows a moment, or a series of moments, where something shifts. The strategies that once worked stop working. The cracks become harder to ignore. And suddenly, you start asking questions.

If you’ve ever thought, “My ADHD isn’t bad enough to count,” you’re not alone. So many adults, especially women and those diagnosed later in life, question whether their struggles “qualify.” They’ve seen the typical image of ADHD: the hyperactive child who can’t sit still, the disruptive student, the constant chaos. And compared to that, their own experience can feel… quieter. More subtle. Easier to dismiss. But here’s the truth: ADHD doesn’t have one look. The Myth of “Typ

Noah was listening to a Joe Rogan podcast with Dr Gabor Maté. He found it easy to listen to and appreciated the knowledge shared and different perspectives. Noah liked hearing how Dr Maté had dealt with ADHD in his own life and the approaches he used in treating people. As they discussed ADHD on the podcast, Noah recognised the patterns in himself, so he got Dr Maté's audiobook Scattered Minds to better understand. He had to sit with the idea he had ADHD for a bit before he

This is my story in a nutshell. How I discovered I am not defective; I am simply wired differently. How I realised ADHD runs in our family and that this knowledge empowers us to create a new reality for ourselves. I grew up in an abusive environment where awful shit happened. It created trauma and struggle. Being a kid was tough, and learning how to adult wasn't easy either. I dropped out of school in my final year and started doing administrative office work. I experienced m